Tales of IT: Don't Let Silence Be Misread

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Suraj had joined the company only three days ago.

Like most newcomers, he was still figuring out where the meeting rooms were, which coffee machine actually worked, and how long it would take before people stopped introducing themselves with their job titles.

That afternoon, he walked into the cafeteria carrying a tray and looking for an empty seat.

“Hey, new guy!” someone called out.

A group of employees occupied a corner table. They seemed comfortable in the way only people who had spent years together could be. The man who waved him over introduced himself first.

“Kunal.”

The others followed.

Most of them had been with the company for seven years. Some even longer.

Suraj joined them. The conversation started casually—where he was from, what team he had joined, and how he was finding the company so far.

Then Kunal did what many people in the IT industry seemed incapable of resisting.

He opened LinkedIn.

A few moments later, a grin appeared on his face.

“Oh wow.”

The others looked up.

“What?”

Kunal turned his phone around.

“Suraj changed two companies in the last three years.”

A few chuckles erupted around the table.

Kunal leaned back dramatically.

“At this speed, buddy, you’ll probably cover every company in Bangalore within a decade.”

The table laughed.

Another comment followed.

“You must constantly run into former colleagues everywhere.”

Someone else joined in.

“Forget networking. Suraj’s building a complete company collection.”

More laughter.

Suraj simply smiled.

No argument.

No explanation.

No defensive speech.

Just a small smile.

A few seconds later, he stood up.

“Nice meeting everyone.”

And he started walking away.

The group exchanged amused looks.

Just then another voice emerged from a nearby table.

“Suraj, wait a minute.”

Everyone turned.

It was Shekhar.

The name alone was enough to change the atmosphere.

Shekhar was one of those rare engineers who earned respect without asking for it. People sought his opinions during technical crises. Senior managers listened when he spoke. Even the most confident developers thought twice before debating him.

Apparently, he had been sitting nearby and had overheard everything.

He walked toward the group.

Then he looked directly at Suraj.

“Buddy, you should definitely learn about loyalty from Kunal.”

The cafeteria suddenly became very quiet.

Kunal frowned.

Shekhar continued with a perfectly straight face.

“He’s incredibly loyal to this company.”

A pause.

“That’s obviously why he’s still here.”

Another pause.

“Certainly not because he couldn’t find another job.”

A few people looked away, trying not to laugh.

“Oh no,” Shekhar continued. “And when he tried interviewing elsewhere a couple of years ago and failed miserably, that definitely wasn’t because of his interview performance.”

The silence grew heavier.

“I’m sure the interviewers simply lacked the capability to evaluate such extraordinary talent.”

Someone nearly choked on their coffee.

Kunal’s smile had completely disappeared.

He knew Shekhar well enough to understand what was happening.

Arguing would only make things worse.

Without saying a word, he picked up his tray and left.

A couple of others followed shortly afterward.

Within minutes only Suraj and Shekhar remained.

Shekhar extended his hand.

“Shekhar.”

“Suraj.”

They shook hands and sat down.

For a moment neither spoke.

Then Shekhar smiled.

“You know what I noticed?”

“What?”

“I see a ’let the dogs bark’ attitude in you.”

Suraj laughed.

“Maybe.”

“It’s not entirely a bad thing,” Shekhar said. “Most nonsense isn’t worth responding to.”

Suraj nodded.

“That’s exactly what I thought.”

“Maybe. But be careful.”

The tone in Shekhar’s voice became serious.

“Never let people confuse your patience with your inability.”

Suraj listened.

“When someone takes a cheap shot at you and you completely ignore it, you think you’re being mature.”

“Isn’t that maturity?”

“Sometimes.”

Shekhar leaned forward.

“But sometimes the other person interprets it differently.”

“How?”

“They don’t think, ‘Wow, he’s mature.’”

“They think, ‘Interesting. I can mess with this guy and there will be no consequences.’”

Suraj remained silent.

Shekhar continued.

“You don’t have to fight every battle.”

“You don’t have to respond to every idiot.”

“You don’t have to prove yourself every day.”

“But people should know from the beginning that you’re not someone they can casually disrespect.”

The words landed harder than Suraj expected.

For years he had believed that ignoring foolish behavior was always the higher road.

Maybe it often was.

But maybe there was a difference between choosing silence and being perceived as powerless.

Shekhar stood up.

“Anyway, you’ll figure it out.”

Then he smiled.

“And for what it’s worth, changing companies isn’t a crime. Some people gain experience by moving. Some gain it by staying. What matters is what you’ve learned.”

Suraj nodded.

“Thanks.”

As Shekhar walked away, Suraj sat there for another minute thinking.

The lesson had nothing to do with job hopping.

Nothing to do with loyalty.

Nothing to do with LinkedIn.

It was something much simpler.

Silence can be a sign of strength.

But if you’re not careful, the world may mistake it for weakness.

And sometimes, the first impression you allow people to form becomes the hardest one to change.

From that day onward, Suraj carried a new lesson with him:

Never let anyone mistake your silence for your inability.

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